Time isn't healing

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

punctuality is virtue!!.

Okay, I've got something to write. This just happened to me, and I'm a little pissed off right now. Plus, I'm sure that particular person doesn't read this, so I'll be writing this here.

I, absolutely HATE people who isn't punctual, and/or keep their promises.
When someone says, 'I'll be there soon', I EXPECT them to be here in at least 5 minutes time.
And when you only walk here? I expect you to be right outside my gate in 2 minutes. NOT in an hour!
Waiting for you, and constantly looking at the clock wondering why you're not here yet, is not exactly something I look forward to every time I go out with you.
So since you're not sure what time you'll be able to arrive at my place, what's wrong with saying 'I'll text you when I'm reaching your place.' ??
When you tell me that, I am actually able to accomplish something while I wait for that 'I'm reaching' text.
But nooooo, you just had to make me WAIT.
And every time I wanted to just stand up and go do something, YOU are the reason why my head keeps telling me, 'sit down and chill, they might be here in a minute. No point being in a middle of something when they arrive.'
Thus, I kept sitting there, panicking, wondering WHEN you'd arrive.

And honestly, I could have been in a middle of something, and making you wait, but I don't do that, because I respect that you might feel annoyed having to wait for someone.
Sometimes, I wonder if I'm the only one to actually THINK for others coming to these kind of things.
And it's not like I can just take revenge and MAKE you wait, because that is just plain rude and I wasn't brought up that way.

Other than that, when someone ask me to go to their place to get to somewhere, don't text me saying, 'Come to my place now' because I EXPECT to leave once I reach your place.
If you aren't ready, DON'T tell me to go to your place that early! I don't exactly feel comfortable sitting there, waiting for you get dressed, eat your lunch/breakfast/dinner, packing your bag, and having your family members staring me down trying to create a conversation.

Moreover, when I'm supposed to fetch you along to somewhere, be PREPARED when I reach your place.
I don't exactly feel very eco-friendly having the car engine pumping out CO waiting for you taking your own sweet time.
When I say 'I'll be there now', get prepared NOW.
If you can't find your keys, or couldn't make the keys to work and open the automatic gate, I understand perfectly. But if you're not ready because you haven't change...you haven't gotten your bottle....you haven't brush your teeth...you just fucking woke up....
I'm not a very patient person, well, maybe I am, that is why I'm writing it here and not spitting it to your face, but I still hope that you'd understand when I tell you to be ready, BE ready.

I guess, that's it. Already vented out my anger...